Clueless Seeker, Self-Motivated

On Grindr there is a particular type of seeker who doesn't know what they look for. The motivic force fueling their engagement is self-serving. Modus operandi is one where seeker will initiate the interaction, asking questions to reveal available options (activities offered by the target) and produce a menu. Target is asked to share photos, locations, ideas — the heavy lifting. Seeker may cooperate if menu options align to his tastes, ceasing or blocking if they don't, without reciprocating the informations shared by target. Seeker will tumble when asked back or throwing back a question, evading or not having clear answers.

• Medium / Grindr

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• Topic / Identifying Bad Faith

• Topic / Individualism, Production of Individual